Does My Boyfriend Love Me? 5 Actions to Look For
It can be difficult to totally understand your boyfriend. While you may think you got him figured out, you may be confused about how he feels about you.
Each relationship will have different signs/actions that will clue you in about how deep his loves runs.
Here are 5 actions to look for that may show your boyfriend really does love you, be on the look out for these……
1. He Does the Small Things
Men sometimes tend to focus on the larger things that’s going on in relationships. Like loaning you money, giving you a ride to work ..etc. These larger things aren’t clear indicators of love. He could just about do these things for anyone.
Most times, people in a relationship fail to understand the smaller things mean a lot and truly says if you are thought of and cared about on a deeper level. These smaller things are very detailed and go a long way to say “I thought enough of you” to do whatever it is they did. Things like, calling you to make sure you made it home safe and forcing himself not to fall asleep until he knows you made it home are things that show it’s more than about the physical aspects of the relationship.
Other things like, bringing you flowers, a card, candy, writing you a love letter, giving you a massage or taking 5 minutes out of a busy day to call/text all says “I took the time to think about you”. These are small things women look for to feel special. It’s not the $500 loan or the assistance in purchasing a house. While we feel grateful for the larger things, small attention to detail really gives a clue about how he feels deep down about you.
2. He’s Talking about the Future
One of the biggest indicators of love is talking about a future with you. If he is talking about future dates, or future actions, you can know that he is thinking about you in his future. Whether it be the immediate future, or a distant future, you can be sure that he loves you or at the very least has deep feelings for you.
3. He’s Taking you Out
Does your boyfriend take you out to dinner, to the movies or out on the town often? If your boyfriend likes to entertain you, he has strong emotions for you that could be love.
4. He’s Showing you Off to Friends
Your boyfriend would not show you off to his friends if he did not love you. Is your boyfriend inviting you to hang out with his friends? Does he constantly talk to his friends about you? Does he spend more time with you than his friends? These are signs that he values his relationship with you.
5. He Wants you to Meet the Family
One of the biggest steps in a relationship is the step that introduces you to your boyfriends family. Most men will not introduce a partner to their family unless they see potential in the relationship. If your boyfriend did not see this future, he would not introduce you to parents, brothers, or sisters. If he wants you to meet the family, you can be sure that he loves you.
Actions Speak Louder than Words
Your boyfriend may not be the best at verbalizing his love for you. If he does struggle to vocalize his feelings, look at his actions. If you notice that his actions signify a deep and sincere desire to make you happy, you can know that your boyfriend cares a lot about you.
If your relationship is brand new, be patient. Love grows at a pace of it’s own. Don’t expect him to Love you in just a few months. If he’s doing the things above, Love is surely to follow.
On the other hand, If you have been dating a while and he’s showing a sincere desire to make you happy, more than likely love is in the air or just around the corner!
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