Become the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave
“If Only I Could Understand Men….”
Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do?
A lot of times, women can miscommunicate what a man body language is really saying. So instead of becoming part of the solution, women can sometime become part of the problem when dealing with men. More on this in a moment.
Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.
1) Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,” what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be able to control them.”
At lot of times women can translate this into a man not caring or really not having any emotions which can cause here to become even more upset or doubtful about how her man feels.
Understanding that your man can simply be trying to control himself is one way you understand him and make better decisions about the things you may say to him in retaliation.
2) Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem. Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings. So the most frequent way for them to deal with a situation is for them to become quiet.
When a man becomes quiet it may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control of their emotions. Again we as women might not get this, until we really start to understand how men “tick”.
3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful.
Sometimes women can feel its all about how she looks, her figure, how sweet and kind she is to a man. You’ll often find the man who has all that will be cheating on her with a woman that has none of those body features or that doesn’t have that sweet kind demeanor. Her man may even begin to pull away because of getting to much too soon.
Why is this? It’s because men, when it comes to settling down and falling in true love, look for trust and a woman that can make love to his mind. She knows how to go beyond just being sweet, she not pouring everything she has in him or on him. She knows how to give enough to make him want more. She knows how to let him be free to be himself while keeping him captivated and while keeping his attention.
Becoming the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave
If you want to become the woman men adore and never want to leave. You’ll need to really understand how to relate to a man and understand how they “tick”.
If you find that you are having trouble keeping a man’s attention, having problems in your relationship or you feel like the men you date start to pull away then you may can understand what we are discussing in this post.
If you liked these insights here and want to know more you’ll want to take a look at Bob Grant’s wonderful e-book called, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave.” Bob Grant, P.L.C., has taken his 17 years of private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach and condensed only the best information into a mouth-watering, powerful handbook on what men find themselves powerless to resist in a woman.
Watch the video here to learn more about things like the Camp Fire Effect to draw him in and make him captivated and spellbound by your presence. You’ll also learn about the Tension Tease. This is for the woman who gives her all to a relationship and her man still doesn’t know if she’s the one.
There’s more you’ll learn too… take a moment to check out Become the Woman Men Adore and Never Want to Leave.
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May you find the love you deserve,
AKA, Ask Shakira Love