Being Sexy for Your Man – Know How to Keep it Spicy

Being Sexy for Your ManIf you haven’t noticed men can be very visual.  Most men love a sexy woman.  Especially if she’s his woman. This doesn’t mean she’s always looking 100%, but  the way she carries herself, the way she does her hair and makeup and the way she talks gives her attractiveness that draws in a man.  Not over doing any of these things, but giving just enough to shows she cares about how she is for herself and her man.

Sometimes women will tend to get very comfortable in their relationship. When they used to have the prettiest and newest lingerie when seeing him, they now go for a crumbled old t-shirt.  When they used to give him massages and surprise him with all kinds of special homemade dinners, they are now too tired to give a massage and McDonalds will have to do.

While men tend to look past these things at times, your appearance and the way you “tend” to him can add to him having a more erotic time with you. Men at times need visual aids to get them going.. if you know what I mean.

Making Him Want You – Be Sexy for Him

If you want your man to want you sexually, you have to look like you want to be wanted.  Don’t have on a dingy crumbled t-shirt from your laundry basket  with fly away hair and wonder why he falls right to sleep when he gets into bed.  Being well groomed, smelling good and looking cute is how you get his attention.  You don’t  have to go to bed looking like you’re going out on the town, but a nice going to bed look is really sexy for him.  So throw out all your old worn out stuff and fill your drawers with cute pieces you can mix and match. Invest in some nice pony tail holders or cute soft head bands  for when your hair isn’t looking good to wear down.

This doesn’t apply just for the bedroom. You can look good during the day as well. A cute T-shirt and jeans, topped with nicely done nails and a cute hair style can be simple yet sexy vs.  a big t-shirt, sweat pants and gym shoes.  When you know you are going to see him, just a few touches to your look to show you are wanting to look nice for him is very sexy. But hey, if you want to go for something even sexier go ahead. A cute dress with some nice heels will surely turn his head!

The rule of the sexy world is, If you don’t do it for him, another woman just might and I hold this to be very true. You must work your relationship to keep it spicy and to keep it full of life or risk somebody else trying to do it for your man. Not to say he will go for it, by why have him wishing you were more like the lady at the office?

 

Being Sexy is More than How You Look

There is a lot that goes into being sexy. It’s not just about how you look. It’s also about the joy and happiness you bring to your man. What I mean is, are you always nick picking, over possessive, constantly on him about different issues? All these things add to your sexiness as well. Knowing how to deal with issues that come up will give you inner sexiness that reflects on the outside as well.  A man loves a woman, that knows how to handle herself and knows the right time talk and not argue  about issues.  What I mean is, not bringing up something he did in the past in the middle of having a nice dinner, for example. Why spoil the moment, choose another time to talk about that if its bothering you.

Being sexy is a state of mind too. You must be confident in yourself. If you are not feeling confident and comfortable with yourself this may mean making a few tweaks here and there so you can find your level of confidence.  For example, If you feel you can’t do anything with your hair, make an appointment to get a new look. Experiment with some extensions, color or even a cut.  If in your mind, you can’t be all you want because you are unhappy with your weight, join a gym and drop a few pounds. If its your clothes, invest in some new ones. The idea is to get to a point where you feel confident in yourself to be sexy for your man.

Another good idea is read up on how keep your man happy. This is something a lot of women do not do. Knowing how to keep your man happy will keep you far ahead of other women and give you even more of a confidence boost.

What ever you were doing in the beginning of your relationship to get your man, should be the same things you should be mindful of doing in the later part of your relationship to keep your man. Never stop being that great woman he met.  You don’t have to be overboard with it,  just don’t let your relationship get boring.

Here are some examples of things you can do to keep your relationship sexy…

  • Play games or romance games together
  • Make him a romantic dinner then giving him a lap dance
  • Plan an outing at a nice hotel with a jacuzzi
  • Make him a sexy video and send it to him
  • Give him a bath and full body massage to relax him
  • Incorporate adult toys into love making
  • Walk around the house with sexy lingerie and heels……

The above are all things you can do to keep your relationship sexy. Does it take work? Yes, I won’t lie.  So you have to know how to make this work or you might find yourself overwhelmed. For instance, if you don’t feel like doing something that requires “a lot” of effort, go for giving him a massage. On days when you feel “out of it” send him a sexy text and/or  treat him out to dinner and have a simple gift to present him.  The key is to be doing something “special” for him more often than NOT.

How to Be Sexy – Keep It Simple

Being sexy doesn’t always mean dressing up and putting on some heals. Sexy is all about the way you carry yourself.  You want your man to have the best and that includes the best in you too.

Just making small changes can work wonders to give you sex appeal. Use these tips to help you make your relationship sexy.

Article by Candace Harrison
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